How To Impress Him

If any woman wants to know what impresses men, there are some skillful ideas out there to get the job done. Not just any men, but the type of man you want to attract. Some are fashion related and others are savoir fair (style) that you may have naturally. Having said that, you can also learn how to stop tossing men out of the picture.  After all, one does not ever know who we end up with in life. There are ways to accentuate your good traits.

Let me give you some helpful hints:

- Guys are attracted to females that are down to earth, not the ‘show me the money types.’ They are usually for the night only. Real men want as pure and natural as they can get. Being materialistic and a poser is short term, very short term. If she is wearing stilettos and bling all over, she will do for now, but most of the time, only now. The first thing that hits a man’s mind is maintenance. Well ladies, let someone else take care of that. Men nowadays don’t want a girlfriend window shopper with her mans deep pockets. This is also a pattern men watch for, trust me. I am not saying one has to be as boring as a wet blanket. There always needs to be balance in a relationship. Men like beauty, yes, but sharp and a challenge to them in a good way is always in a man’s thoughts.

- A woman’s fragrance is a good start, but not overdone. A mild unusual, yet sexy clean smell is one thing that can make you impressive without saying a sentence. However, this varies from man to man, bare that in mind. Fresh always works.

- Be enticing, a woman that knows what a man wants to hear, will make him want more of it. Chit chat men love as much as women do, so work with basics and then out from there. Sharpness and brains is always a plus, but subtleness is a must. Show confidence in fashion and let him see how organized you are, is a major advantage.

- If you want to be two steps ahead, show confidence, this will of course depend on the kind of woman he is looking around for. Having two self confident people of different genders can be a hassle at times. Just make sure you are presentable, relaxed and a slight tad submissive. Real men love that. Independence is nice but, a tad vulnerable is sexy, just as it is for men. It is a fine line. Baby sitting is out of the question, men look for this trait. Trust me, it’s 2012

- Men are visual creatures. Dress to impress. It doesn’t need to be designer and all that; however, there are many low key stylists out there, so shop around for something that says “talk to me, come closer”. Just keep in mind, not to go crazy with your fashion. Simply is sexy. Enhance what your creator gave you, legs eyes, whatever. –Be happy. Men love that.

Finally, do not act overdone. In plain English do not look needy. Just be effective. You certainly don’t want to attract the wrong guy.

Begin with this help but keep in mind; he needs to be right for you as well. Impression is important, but don’t change yourself for any man. He will have lots to prove to you, that’s for sure.